I'm drowning in this starry serenade

HELLO.

Well, I think I'll be talking about a certain topic today. Since all I've ever done so far is write about what's been happening in my life. How selfish. Anyway, I'm pretty sure that you have a crush on someone. (And yes, I am addressing this to both the guys and girls) And I'm just wondering, do you want to handle this crush, like right now? Like, you know. What to do and what not to do. Of course, you might have received advice before you read this but, hear me out. Alright, here we go.

You probably have a crush on someone RIGHT NOW. But, the question is, how do you handle this crush? I'll be explaining HOW from a Christian's (that's me) point of view.

1. Now, since you already have a crush on 'so and so', you're probably crazy over him/her. But the last thing you really want to do is be overwhelmed with thoughts about 'so and so'. So, Don't talk about your crush with your friends. I mean, sure. You share everything with your best friend, but do you really want him/her to nudge you or give you 'the face' whenever your crush walks by? Speaking from experience, not really. And of course, your friend will probably try to dig out more about your crush and ask why you like 'so and so'. I'm pretty sure you aren't really fond of that.

2. Don't intentionally do anything that will stir up thoughts about 'so and so'. (e.g. putting up pictures of him/her on your wall.) Alright, you really like this person, and you can't seem to get him/her out of your mind. So it would be a really bad idea to stalk him/her on Facebook, or check his/her Twitter wall every five minutes. It sounds really tempting, I know. So I think its best not to do that.

3. Don't tell him/her how you feel about him/her or give any indications you're interested. You obviously DO NOT want to do this. I mean, how would you know if he/she was interested in you or not? Wouldn't you be 'heartbroken' if you found out that he/she wasn't interested in you? Of course for some lucky people it really works out... but for others... well.... things don't go as well as they planned it.

4. Don't dwell on thoughts of him/her or let yourself get carried away with your dreamy imaginations.
Admit it. You've tried attaching your first name to his last name. (Or attaching her first name to your last name, if you're a guy) Or you've sat in your room wondering how your wedding will be like, or how your children will look etc. STOP. You can't do this to yourself. For all you know, that girl/guy might not even be the 'right one'! God wants to give you His 'best'. And Satan will do all he can to give you his 'best'. (which probably isn't good at all) Of course you'd choose God's best! And if this was who God wanted you to be with, He would immediately start bringing you two together! But, if you've staring at your crush and standing on the other side of the room from where he/she stands for months, if not, years, well. You gotta move on.

Well, I really hope that this was helpful for those 'pursuers' out there. But remember, you have to wait for God's timing. He will bring you the best he could ever give. :D

KTHXBYE